Single Men
Avoid people’s wives – why die before your time? Don’t sleep in a bed where you don’t pay rent. Marriage is for men, not boys. Women don’t eat six-pack. Any loser can sire children. Take responsibility for your choices. Respect women as human beings, they are not your sex toys. If you are not ready to commit, stop creating false hopes. Organize yourself before you look for a partner.
If you are not marrying her, why ask for her photos? There are many great girls out there ready for a mature man, not mama’s boy. Real men don’t keep multiple women guessing. Neither do they send hints. If you are man enough, speak up your mind. Stop dodging her texts. Stop lying to impress. If you’re not ready to settle down, tell her. Don’t rush ahead of yourself. Singleness is not sickness.
If you want to step into marriage, know that you are the primary provider. No matter how great a woman may be, every relationship has its own challenges and dynamics. Purpose to stick with your woman through thick and thin. Some males run away from the woman they hustled with for younger girls when they succeed. But real kings stand with their queen till death do them part.
Every woman is a beautiful flower. Don’t sleep with every skirt wearer you come across. Don’t follow instincts like an animal. Prostitution reduces you to a loaf of bread (Proverbs 6:26). Many single ladies are emotionally wounded. Women should feel secure in your company. Be gentle with them as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers (1 Peter 3:7).
DR. K. N. JACOB
